Is My Mind Under My Control? - Responsibility

I was asking myself "Is My Mind Under My Control?" when I've been failing and not doing things I wanted.

However when using this question I tried to not be responsible for my mind. People of success want to be responsible for everything, because being responsible is an optimistic way to live life, I will explain.

If I and you try to make ourselves into position where it is not our responsibility for this failure and that conflict or this loss you began to be unable to change, because why to change when it is not possible to change since you are not in charge? It could drive us into depression and pessimism.

On the other hand people who take their responsibilities and are in charge of everything they get involved in and very often are very optimistic because they can change anytime anywhere whatever they want as much as they want to achieve anything they want.

This is one of the true "secrets" of success. Because when you can't control your mind, you can't control your body , you can't control your decisions and in effect it is very hard/not possible to control your destiny.

Now, I've stopped asking "Is My Mind Under My Control?" and started asking myself "What could I've done better?" and do it again but in corrected fashion.

Try it, I promise you will be successful one day.