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How To Get Around People You Really Want To Be Near?

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A young man stands alone on a rooftop at sunset, looking down with a thoughtful expression, while a group of stylish people socialize in the blurred background. The scene conveys feelings of longing, reflection, and social distance.

When I wanted to be around people I desired to be I could have a feeling of unworthiness, but shall I?

I think many people can find themselves experiencing simillar problem, howver this is only the tip of the iceberg. Many people that experience this feeling also have generally problem with maintaing healthy social bonds.

However this does not mean that I shouldn't want to be around this or another group of people, for example it is not unhealthy for a poor person to be in the group of rich people although when the thought about the inability dominates our mind it becomes a curse.

The best way to become around people I want to be is to have burning desire for it with an unquestionable hope, making effort to be there and not thinking "I am bad" when not in this group.